Kim and Philomena’s Story

Being diagnosed with dementia is something that a family would always remember.

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Philomena was diagnosed with dementia 17th February 2016 – a date that her family would never forget. She currently lives alone with the support of her Home Instead carers, and her two daughters to help her with her medication, ironing, shopping and meal preparation.

Once a month Philomena and Kim (her daughter) used to attend a dementia cafe in Bishops Stortford, run by The Alzheimer’s Society, which they both thoroughly enjoyed, but unfortunately it got shut down.

With the worry of Philomena not being able to have some social interaction, they got referred to a dementia hub in Sawbridgeworth by Hertswise.

” Hertswise run such an invaluable service that has been great not just for my mum but for me too!” – Kim, Philomena’s Daughter 

Ever since her first session, Philomena has enjoyed every moment of it “There is just so much to do and many opportunities to join in with things.”

With Philomena’s dementia getting progressively worse, she has been every so thankful for the opportunity to join a hub that is welcoming and helps her engage more in the activities.

“At home she now always talks to her carers and her cleaner about the things she does at the hub, and shows them what she makes – thus allowing her to have social interaction with them too.” – Kim, Philomena’s Daughter 

If you would like some more information regarding one of our hubs please contact Herts Help on: 0300 123 4044

7 Days Until Dementia Action Week


It’s one week until and the Alzheimer’s Society have organised activities in Watford from 20th-26th May.

The aim of this week is to unite people, workplaces, schools an communities to take action and improve the lives of people living with dementia.

Together with Watford Council, the Alzheimer’s Society have lots of interesting and fun events held throughout Watford.


Mon, 20th May – Virtual Reality dementia bus and exhibition – intu Watford

Tuesday, 21st May – Celebration of the carers of people with dementia – Vicarage Road

Wednesday, 22nd May – Herts Musical Memories Concert – St Mary’s Church

Thursday, 23rd May – Dementia Friends Information Sessions – Watford Library

Friday, 24th May – Pampering Day – intu Watford

For more information visit:

Bob’s Story

Living with Dementia doesn’t have to be lonely, as Bob found out at one of the Hertswise Hub.

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Bob used to attend the Early Memory Diagnosis and Support Service after being diagnosed with unspecified dementia in 2009 and Alzheimer’s Disease in 2015. Although his dementia has been slow in progression, due to his good level of physical and mental activity, he was referred to Hertswise to help him more with his social interaction and how to maintain his independence.

Hertswise hubs offer a sense of community among local people affected by dementia, as well as access to information, support and a variety activities based on the needs and interests of attendees. Bob was reluctant to attend the hub at first as he said: “Won’t they just be full of old fogies who will be much too ancient for me”, but then his daughter Ruth rang Hertswise to find out some more information about the hubs that they run.

“If I didn’t come to the hub I would miss the interaction and especially the locality workers who are diamonds in the pack.”

– Bob, Hertswise Hub Attendee

Ruth got in contact with one of the support workers, Hollie, who arranged a pre-visit with Bob to discuss the support on offer and what they do at the weekly hub at All Saints Church. Since speaking with Hollie, Bob started to attend the hubs every other week, and has been attending since July 2018. He has said: ” The best thing about going to the hub is that I like to sit back and watch the interaction between the various age groups, when ordinarily they might not cross paths outside of the group.”

Ruth has since seen a brighter side to her father and says: “He enjoys the variety of events that Hertswise organise, particularly musical ones, as well as mixing with the varied attendees at the group, where he has made such great friends.”

Bob is now able to maintain his independence, as he arrives to the hub on his own and actively takes part in his local arts group where he utilises his architect skills to draw portraits on his iPad.

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Letchworth group attendee wins gold!

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Iris and Ken at Letchworth Dementia Hub

Iris Hornsey, a wife and carer for Ken, became world champion at the World Indoor Masters Track and Field Championships.

The event held in Torun, Poland saw Iris gain a bronze medal for Women 75+ 400 meters category in the time of 1:24:16.

As well as gaining a bronze medal she also gained two gold medals for the 800m in the time of 3:55:07 and 1500m in the time of 8:04:42.

Both herself and her husband Ken were over the moon with her wins and hard work in the event.

Iris got the chance to show off her medals and achievements when they came back home and attended their Dementia hub session for Ken in Letchworth.

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Iris’s Bronze and Gold Medals

Dog Days Success

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Hertswise Dementia Partnership held their first Dog Days session and the dogs loved the pup-arazzi.

Dog Days is a two day event designed for people at any stage of dementia, with or without a diagnosis to bring joy, fun and social interaction.

Their first event held Thursday, 2nd May was a success with guests enjoying tea, cakes, and pet themed activities while interacting with friendly dogs.

Both older people with dementia and their carers came along to the event, and felt that the day was an enjoyable one.

The next Dog Days is to be held Thursday, 6th June 2pm-4pm at Park Side View in St Albans. For more information on how to book your place please contact Samantha Dukelow at: OR 03001234044.

Please note that booking is not essential.